Episode 26: "Grieve, Create, Believe" with Author Rachel George
This episode features my conversation with Rachel George and her story of miscarriage, infant loss, adoption, and the recent birth of another baby.
Rachel shares her definition of rainbow baby, which is more complicated because of her experience losing two rainbow babies, Clive and Winnie. Through the unimaginable grief of losing two newborns to unrelated heart issues, Rachel and her husband found the courage to continue to pursue their dream to grow their family through the adoption of their daughter Corrie and another pregnancy that resulted in the birth of their son Miles.
Throughout the years of these experiences Rachel began writing her book, Grieve, Create, Believe as a way to not only process her own grief through telling her story, but also to help others do the same.
Rachel is honest in her sharing and I am in awe of the realness and resilience of her faith journey through some of the darkest times.
Some of the topics we talk about:
Dealing with the desire to get pregnant immediately after loss
Rachel’s NICU experiences
VBAC after loss
Going through adoption after loss, including a failed adoption
Coping with fear in deciding to try again after losing two newborns
Getting comfortable with people not understanding the specific path that you’re walking
Coping with anxiety during pregnancy after loss
Dealing with guarded and complicated feelings after giving birth to a rainbow baby
Learning to ask for help in motherhood after loss
How Rachel’s faith in God became stronger through grief
Expressing anger towards God
Responding to Christian clichés
Rachel’s advice for parents going through pregnancy after loss
And please share this podcast with anyone you know who is walking through life after pregnancy loss, whether they are trying to conceive, currently pregnant, or parenting after loss.